Life is filled with lots of domains to figure out and pursue all of them. Think of life as a tree whose branches go down to different domains and then subdomains etc. If you are a computer science student, you must be knowing the breadth first and depth first search algorithms to explore through the tree. It is this choice of your exploration that determines the course of your life.
- People who opt to explore in breadth-first strategy, look out for all the options, judge them by the standards of their interests, aptitude and most importantly benefits it can provide to us. They are pretty much confused at this stage itself because it is not always binary that you like it or not, rather it is a gray scale somewhere in between. They will be jumping from one thing to another quite often, takes a lot of time go deep and settle on the next level of any domain. Life is too short for this kind of people to succeed. However, they tend to be very knowledgeable and opinionated on very diverse courses of life.
- If you look at depth first kind, who are more focused, they go deeper and deeper through mere perseverance for success or unmatchable motivation or whatever it is that drives them. This is the success group or most famously called outliers. They will be very highly skilled in a very narrow domain which will thrill the whole humanity and attracts everyone to notice them and is very marketable. But this is restricted to his narrow domain and remains pretty much dumb in many other aspects or domains of life. This wouldn’t be a problem because of the financial success or celebrity status they enjoy, they can hire or find other people to manage those things and they love to remain in the aura of the tall kingdom they have built for themselves. This narrow domain is mostly decided by the culture of his environment or the aptitude and practices of his family etc.
Irrespective of love, people always try to marry or date the most worthy person available in their vicinity. In this view, marriage can be considered as a self-imposed disciplinary action against falling prey for instant gratification.
What you don’t use you lose. If you stop practising something, you will eventually lose it. Skill is like a bicycle, Easy to balance at the fast pace. However, slow, patient and persistent riders are essential to unravel deeply hidden secrets of science.
Confidence, happiness and worth attract women to a man. During my first love, she approached me looking at above qualities of mine. As relationship went for few months, I became dependent on her love. Then, she found a guy who is relatively more confident and happy than me, she moved on when I am mentally weak, vulnerable and craving for a sense of belongingness. As someone said, women look out for the mental state of a person through different omens. The practice of killing sadness at yourself and spreading happy moments around will bring you more friends and happiness into your life.
Which tool to use when is one of the most important skills you should learn. In academy and other institutions, often you will be taught about how to use a tool or technique to counter a problem. The questions of which tool or technique we need to pick at what problem setting is something you have to learn yourself through experience and practice most of the times.
Ability to come up with a right measure for quantifying things is a very valuable skill in science and technology.
We are biologically evolved to feel and culturally evolved to think.
Computer science is great because it has developed analytic methods(complexity analysis) to evaluate any algorithmic ideas in their domain. Most other domains like Entrepreneurship, Moral philosophy etc. don’t have these kinds of rigorous analytic methods for their ideas. This makes most of their ideas debatable for longer periods of time if not forever.
Passivity leads to boredom.
Focused education is the best kind of investment in the early stage of your life.
If you are worried about something, just step back and ask yourself whether that something is really necessary for the long term. This might resolve lots of your worries.
Spend for comfort not luxury.
In my early days, with lots of youthful arrogance, when there are two problems to tackle, I used to always choose the hard one. Naturally, that decision of mine made me fail many times and killed my confidence to darkest depths. When I started to tackle smaller and easier problems in my vicinity, there is some progress I could measure from time to time which gave me confidence and also tackling these small problems looked like stepping stones to harder ones. So, start small to make it big rather to start big and fail forever.
Elimination of zero sum games – The root of all problems.